Sexual predator´s profile on social networks

It´s astonishing the number of women with whom Daren was able to engage in sexual activities, including sex phone, sexting, sharing nude pictures, etc.. Many of those women where married. Lack of presence of theirs husbands, fatigue regarding the marriage, being unsatisfied with their sex life or just for the thrill.

In any case, although those women exposed themselves to the situations and allowed it to gt to the point of intimacy, we can´t really put the blame on them. They are victims of a sexual predator, hidden behind a screen, looking to have sexual pleasure from those women.

How to recognize a sexual predator?

Their are many small things that can raise "red flags" when looking at a profile. 

For how long does the profile exists? 

Take note of it has last then a year.  Usually this kind of sexual predators don´t last long before being discovered and have to change profile often, to fine new victims or even to go back to the same victims, under the cover of a new identity. So when you receive a friendship request, don´t be quick to accept, just because it´s a pretty face.

Look at the pictures.

Many people don´t like to put pictures on social media due to security measures. So if someone  doesn´t have a picture of himself has a profile picture and have something else, an animal, an object, something else, it´s not a "red flag" in it self. But if he has a picture of "himself" take note of some things that can help you to see if it´s really his or not: 

Is the picture edited? 

Usually we don´t edit our pictures, we simply upload them. 

Is is a selfie or was it taken by someone else? having been taken by someone else isn´t in itself a "red flag", but if the pose is to worked out, be careful.

Does the person has pictures with friends? 

Again not having is not in itself a "red flag". Still if the person has pictures with other people, are those among his friend list? Usually we party with our friends and we have at least one of them in our friends list.

Does anyone comment on the pictures he upload?

It´s to expect that the person´s friends will comment the pictures. If no one comments the pictures, be careful!

Look at the friend´s list

Sexual predators, either male or female, have a long list of "friends". in the case of a male sexual predator, he will have an extended list of women. If none of those women comment on his pics, his posts, etc...be careful. 

Look at his profile activity

Does he has a regular activity? We use social media to get in touch with friends and family. If we have no activity, no comments, no posts, nothing, it might well be a fake profile!

The sexual predator is a sociopath and a narcissist. He will make himself look good in the "picture". Besides having a good looking picture, he will claim to have a good job, either one making good money or a job who makes him looking smart, like a psychologist, a priest a university teacher, a writer, etc... Usually he will be single or divorced, most of the time recently, to make his victims feel pity for him. And usually he plays the victim, having been betrayed, having a health problem, etc...

His purpose is to get sexual satisfaction from his victims, so he will try to guide the conversation to the topic of sex. It can start we simple jokes or comments to check if you are open to the topic or  not. Then he will say that you are pretty, that you look sexy, to make you feel special and gain your trust. Next he will start to talk about sex. asking you what do you like about sex, for how long have you been without it, etc... the purpose of this is to make his victims thing about sex and to arouse them. Finally, it will get to the point of sharing pics. Now here he will be very careful. He will not ask his victims directly for their pics, because they can ask him back, but he will make them wanting to please him and to send the pics.

Before doing it PLEASE take some precautions. NEVER send nude pics without having talked with the person on Skype, Facetime, Watsapp, etc... and see his face, to confirm who the person is. If it´s a fake profile he will say that his camera is broken, his cellphone is not good and will try to play the victim saying that his victims don´t trust him. At this point the victim is already deeply engaged and will often send the pictures, make videos, even turn on the camera without even seeing him.

If you are suspicious that someone you talk to you has a fake profile, PLEASE try to reveal him. 

Don´t let him  cause emotional damage to other women.